Death sucks. It’s numbing, painful, and often there’s no way you can ever be prepared for it. And what’s worse, it becomes more a part of your life as an adult. Plus it’s tricky to deal with when a friend is affected. What do you do? What do you say? Should you go and pay them a visit as soon as you hear the news? Or would a call suffice? You may feel like you’re intruding, but your friend will appreciate your care, comfort and support as he or she grieves.